•Tuesday, January 07, 2014
As the month started this January, I've been asking myself what's the first thing I should do to make this 2014 different than 2013. I'm looking for something different. Something that can really satisfies me as human being. I don't know if you already experience this, waking up in the morning and for without any reason your sad. You were just starting a day but you already have a heavy heart. It's like something is missing and you don't know what it is. You feel that nothing is working in your life. Then you just want to scream on top of your lungs and ask "WHAT WILL I DO?!"
Oh! yeah! I've experienced that too. And yes it was not easy that with a snap of fingers it will go away. According to my mentor, ninety percent of our life is working well and only ten percent is not working. Sometimes our problem become so big because that's all we see..the problem. We forget to appreciate the things that is working well in every area of our life because we tend to focus on the ten percent not working in our life. True, right? Sometimes small problem will affect our whole day, ruin it and smashed our happiness. And here are my mentor advised.
1. Identify your problem. Identify the 10% that is not working in your life. If it just a small problem, let the small problem become small. Asked yourself if this problem will still matter after 5 to 10 years from now. If not, disregard it and make it totally irrelevant. Do not revolve your world to those small problem in your life.
2. If you are broken, admit it. Cry or mourn if you must. Grieve. But do not stay on that stage. You must set a limit when to end that grieve.
3. Love your self. You gotta love your self. How can you love God and how can you love others if you don't love yourself. But loving oneself is much easier said than done. So the first thing you must remember is protect yourself from abuse. Put boundaries. Saying No is a good thing. Saying NO to Bad Things is saying YES to good things.
4. Happiness is a choice. Always choose to be happy no matter what because if things are going bad, don't worry it will not last forever.
5. Surrender all things to God. When bad things happen it is God redirection it is not God rejection. God has a better plan for you, you just have to look hard because you are focus on 10 percent not working in your life.
Ahaha! I think that's it...I just need to follow the list and it's up to you now the decision if you also do the same thing with me..
Have a Blessed 2014!!!
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